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The Buddha of the Small Following
I have always wanted acclaim. I have always imagined the applause. What a craving. Craving is Greed. The Buddha warned us. Greed can...


Me and My Body
I get together with old friends to share a meal – I try to see each one at least once a month – or if they live too far away, to talk on...


Talking the Talk
It took me a long while to make two of my Zen students “Dharma Holders.” That designation means that I think they’re on the path to...


Oh, Dirk.
In Zen funerals, we talk directly to the departed. I am at a loss for words. I am hoping that words will come. I am picturing you....


Bringing to the Societal Table Those Who Have Been Excluded
This has been the expression of my vow since I found the words in Bernie’s Instructions to the Cook. “Bringing to the societal table...


Visionary Leadership
This has to be the Zen practice. I love the story of the Golden City which the Buddha tells in the Lotus Sutra. It has inspired me. It is...


Magic
Catching the magic is sometimes not so easy. Stumbling into the magic of success is not something to be taken for granted. It has always...


What is Social Action?
The selflessness of social action is not self-neglect just as self-care is not self-neglect. There are four phrases that come to mind,...


No.
What is my “No!” When do I shout it? Do I really shout? “No!” Jesse and Theresa Peterford first met at ICS. Theresa, star teacher, chief...


Infinite Onion
Delusions are inexhaustible, I vow to transform them. When I was doing koan practice with Jishu, very briefly in the last year of her...


Infinite Circle
We were serving special needs students at double the district rate. As we have built our schools, I have been guided by, anchored in an...


Mother's Day 2020
Zen’s relationship to mothers has always seemed a bit strange. Mother’s Day, 2020 is also the twenty-fifth anniversary of Maezumi Roshi’s...


Zen Budgeting Through the COVID-19 Pandemic
No one likes budget cuts. They are always painful. This was shaping up to be our most painful budget. Business people say when they are...


The Zen of Budgeting
Coming Soon, a case study in Zen Budgeting: Budgeting through the Covid-19 Pandemic. I am too grandmotherly. The Gateless Gate is the...


Oh, Richard
At a Zen funeral, we talk directly to the person who has left us. Oh, Richard, thinking of you, I smile. We had so much more to do. So...
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Daddy's Gone
Long before it was Buddha’s Enlightenment Day, December 8th was Daddy’s birthday. I loved that. My birthday was December 7th. Our...

Ken Byalin
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Working Alone
I became aware this morning of how much time I spend alone. Maybe the big change this Fall has been in the increase in the amount of...

Ken Byalin
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The Candle
Emma’s Place holds an annual candle-lighting ceremony. The grieving kids and their parents and their counselors and the friends of Emma’s...

Ken Byalin
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